Two Very Important Ladies
In my life, there have been two women, outside of my family, who have had a major impact on who I am today. What’s interesting is that, until today, I had never realized how very similar they are. And it just makes me smile.
A little over ten years ago, when I was only 14, I met Emily. It was in art class in eighth grade. Well, it was Emily’s class, I was a helper for the teacher. I struck up a conversation with her while we were both painting. I was doing a tribute to Jackson Pollock, she was doing Marc Chagall. And the rest, is history.
I met Nicole in Mathey dining hall in Princeton. My best friend, Pat, had been telling me about this amazing girl I had to meet. How she was so smart, and very attractive. He kept going on about this Nicole person. Telling me I’d be floored. And I was. I only was around her for 30 minutes, and I knew she was awesome. And the rest, is history.
And here I am today; smiling as I think about the various similarities they share. In both I have always felt comfortable talking about both deep, personal issues. Yet both I could easily spend 30 minutes shooting the breeze about nothing. They’re both stubborn as mules, yet coercible when their friends are concerned. They’d gladly give up a kidney for a friend, and they would never ask for that in return. They hold their friends to high standards, yet forgive them when they fall desperately short of them.
Both of these ladies are beautiful and charming. They’re humble in triumph, yet driven to prove wrong every naysayer they have ever met. They have both told me I’m wonderful and then popped my ego when it quickly grew too big. They’ve picked me up when I’ve fallen, and they’ve never let me settle for mediocrity.
As friends, they are more than I feel I have ever deserved. I am blessed to have had them influence me, and I am grateful to Him for their continued presence in my life.
Emily, thank you for everything. I hope the next 10 years are as good, if not better than the first. Happy 24 Birthday.
Nicole, I love you. I anxiously await the next three years because I know they will be better than the first. Happy Anniversary.

